Am I a bad person because I think babies are parasites that suck the life and soul out of you from the inside out and for hating with a passion girls who get pregnant because they
1. are too stupid to use any kind of birth control (or tell their "man" to pull out. Seriously people, birth control is not fucking difficult)
2. because all their girlfriends are getting pregnant
3. they don't want their "man" to leave them or whatever other stupid excuse they use?
I've been with the same guy for six years now. We're still trying to get our lives together and we know it would be irresponsible and detrimental to our life plans if we fucked-up royally and got me pregnant. A lot of our older or more established friends are all having babies now.
That's fine, if you want a child and you can afford to take care of it properly (without constantly dumping the damn thing on your parents every day or every other day because baby-daddy and baby-momma wanna keep their hip young lifestyles) go for it. Spit out a little hell-spawn.
But I'm getting a little annoyed at everyone I know (in my personal life, not online life) asking me when my boyfriend and I are going to have a baby. A woman is not less of a woman because she doesn't have a baby or spend all her time wishing she could get pregnant. I'm not maternal, sue me.
Babies are not cute dolls or fan characters you rp with. Babies poop, cry, poop more, require a lot of time, resources, patience and energy and they grow up to be PEOPLE. Caring for them is unrewarding. That is the harsh reality girls, so STOP getting pregnant irresponsibly. Stop trying to tell me motherhood is awesome and I should have a baby.
Just stop. You're wrong.
So, am I bad person or what?